Party Tips for Parents of Teens & Tweens

For teenagers and their parents, spring means more than just robins and blooming flowers. It also means the start of the teen party season, with proms and graduations setting off a string of celebrations. If your child is going to a party:

• Know where they are going, with whom they are going, and how long they will be there. Get the phone number and address.

• Call the host's parent to make sure a parent will be home during the party and that alcohol will not be allowed.

• Be prepared to say "no" if you're suspicious or unsure about a party.

• Make sure your child has a way to get to and from the party.

• Make sure your child knows to call you if they are uncomfortable at a party and wants to leave, and be ready to pick him up no matter how late. He can say he's sick or has an allergy - or he can blame you for "making" him leave.

• Stay up to greet and talk to your child when they return home.

If your child is hosting a party:

• Sign off on the list of invitees and veto anyone with a reputation for bringing alcohol or getting drunk.

• Agree on house rules and tell your teen if all goes well he can host another party but if not, forget it.

• Stay mostly out of sight, but stick around.

• Provide plenty - carbs llike pizzas rather than salty snacks - and plenty of soft drinks, juice and water.

• Be prepared to deal with guests who try to sneak in alcohol in water or soft drink bottles.

• Lock up your alcohol.

• Remember you are legally responsible for minors served alcohol in your home (other than your own child).

Pichaske, Pete. "A Parent's Guide to the Party Scene." Chesapeake Family May 2016: 20-21. Print.

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